It's been a week since I posted! Like many of you, time slips away on me when other priorities step in and push aside my regular schedule. Last week I was traveling and simply had to let go of some of my expectations to be present to the moment.
I find I live 'in the future' much too often. I'm always planning, scheduling, putting together programs and other such tasks. Perhaps it's my training and years as a project manager but I don't think so. Not as I talk to many of you out there. There is something about our culture that flings us always forward and we don't get to enjoy the here and now.
When I got in the car with my husband my laptop was on the backseat, ready for me to open and start designing the web pages I needed for a new program series I have coming up. And I almost did that until I realized what a beautiful spring day it was and that it would never happen again. The laptop stayed where it was and I sat back to enjoy our journey.
One of my priorities is to pay attention to the beauty around me. Nature feeds my soul and keeps me connected to Something Bigger than me.
If you've been to one of my Life Time workshops or heard me speak on the subject you know I stress priorities over tasks, even the urgent ones. Want to enjoy your own spring day? Here's what I recommend.
1. Get clear on what's important, truly important to you. These should be broad definitions such as "relationships".
2) List 2-3 things in those areas that you want to accomplish. Maybe in the area of relationships you'd like to spend more time with your partner.
3) Now choose one of those items on your list and put it in your calendar. In my example it might look like "Movie Date" on Tuesday evening.
These are just broad guidelines. If you`d really like help to identify your priorities and make them a part of everything you do then register for my `Time of Your Life` workshop on July 10. Not only will you get a chance to learn my secrets but you`ll get a day by the lake AND 30 minutes of private coaching with me.
To find out more more visit my website at www.aprillejanes.com/lifetime.htm